Firstly my daughter is almost fourteen. I agree that young mothers aren't all from backgrounds like mine, but from my own experience i know that if they want to have sex they will regardless of wether they have a thong. She doesn't take advantage of me but my personal choice is to let her spend her money on whatever she wants (within reason). If my daughter wanted to have sex i would prefer her to come to me for birth control rather thean knowing i would say no and therefor not using any. Also, i don't think i was blaming my family situation i was just trying to show it doesn't make it better. As you don't know my daughter i don't think you can comment on whether she is old enough to have thongs, sex and wear revealing clothing. More to the point i don't think you can comment on whether having over strict parents made you want to have sex as everyone is different which is how i see my daughter. I don't see her as an immature thirteen year old as that isnt what she is everyones child is different and i think its up to the individual parent what they let there child wear. What i had a problem with was the fact that you were suggesting that any teenager who went out in thongs and revealking clothing was ultimately a slut.
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