Originally Posted by Sage

Your girlfriend has a problem. However, it's not just drinking. She's disrespectful to you and your wishes within the context of your relationship. Ask yourself- would you like to marry her knowing that she's going to have this same sort of behavior for the rest of your lives? Would you want to spend the rest of your life with her if this issue would go unresolved? YOU can only do so much, Jessieboy. At some point, she's going to have to start putting effort into your relationship. Good relationships require constant input and respect from ALL people involved.

She's damaging herself AND you. Your relationship has some major issues, along with the fact your girlfriend is acting like an immature sot every time she gets near a bar. You can do one of three things:
1) Don't do anything. Keep babysitting her when she goes out and letting her cry on your shoulder for the next fifty years.

2) Break up with her, distance yourself as much as possible from her. Find a nice girl to date, one that doesn't act like an extra from a Girls Gone Wild video.

3) Sit down, talk to her, tell her everything you've told us. If she refuses to listen, and you decide you care enough about her to save the relationship, drag her kicking and screaming to counseling. Call her parents, her friends, everyone she's ever known and get them on the bandwagon to help her. I don't think she's just being "young and enjoying both her youth and her body." She can't be enjoying it that much if she doesn't remember it.