I have experienced, to a degree, the same sort of thing as Borla. She's a control freak. Imposing her will onto "gifts" and "favors" is her way of maintaining control over things in your life as well as her own. You can either learn to adapt or take more control yourself. Problem with trying to take control is that it can have serious negative consequences to your relationship, depending on how important control is to her (and you'll never find out by asking). I have chosen the adapt route by doing things myself whenever I want something a certain way.
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