SecretMethod70, I'm not offended at all.
Other than a few minor flaws (which I'm sure we can all readily admit we have plenty of), she is a wonderful woman and wife. It just continues to dumbfound me that this simple concept can't be grasped or applied by an otherwise wonderful and intelligent woman. She goes out of her way in some aspects to try to make me happy (and as was alluded to earlier, it IS a mutually beneficial relationship, not one-sided), but for some reason she consistently tried to "improve" any request or favor.
Definitely some good input in here though. Thanks all for the replies so far.