Impetuous1

The fact that she's going out on a date with you gives you some liberties. For example, if you feel the urge to hold her hand, do it. If you want to kiss, her do it. She's going out with you because she likes you. Just don't get carried too far. Start out slow at first. If you're unsure, ask. First, start off by holding her hands, if she moves in closer to you, put your arm around her. And if she snuggles up against you, kiss her sans tongue first. If her breathing changes during the kiss or she slams herself against you, then you can give her your tongue. But stop as soon as she pulls away. After that, I think you can take it from there. Oh, and I'm a female and somewhat old fashioned too. At least at first. And what I described, is some of my better experiences.

Also, don't be afraid to be embarassed or unsure of yourself in front of her. Some women think that a man being thrown off balance by our presence is exhilarating. Plus, I'm sure if she feels the same that she's probably having some of those feelings herself.