Ok - here's my share; a few years ago, a beautiful girl I worked in the same office with, and who at times seemed very friendly & playful w/ me, and at other times, somewhat distant, attended an office party at a local joint. On the way home, the whole group ( around 12+) jumped into different cars. I ended up with Miss Love & her supervisor, who requested to be dropped off first. No problem, and now I can see that Miss Love and I have a private ride back to her car at the office. I'm sitting in the car, with the window rolled down, and she comes over, quiet & confidently and says --and I will NEVER Forget this ''' I want to kiss you ''' ----- oh my God, I don't think I breathed for like 4 mins. I was stunned, flabergasted and everything else you can think of. It just hung out there like a dive frozen in mid air. It took me 2 hours to digest it. It was so brave, exciting, intimate, risky, sexy, endearing and everything that can't be put into mere words. The point is, stating what you want, with confidence is sooooo attractive. It doesn't demand a response, at least not immediately. I did kiss her, but not for 6 more months, while my divorce was finalized. She was the best kisser way before our lips met. I haven't seen her for over 10 years now, but the feelings I have as a result of her willingness to simply tell me what she wanted Live right here and right now. Moral of the story, tell her what you want. We all get to speak, we all get to decide, and we all get to be excited whenever another attractive individual tells us what they want to do, be and have with us ! Good luck !
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