Dear oh wise TFP,
You were right. Thanks.
We went out on a date the other night. It was good, but I was reserved as hell! I hate it. I couldn't put my arm around her, I didn't even hold hands or initiate anything. I was damn disappointed in myself and I'm sure she was too. Ergh. How do I man up and quit acting like a god damn 12 year old.
I know how important being comfortable with touch is, but ... damn. Any tips on initiating this sort of thing. I have soooo much hesitation but I can't quite figure out what's holding me back. I think part of it is that I don't know what is appropriate when. Like, if we're just walking around together, hold hands, or arm around the shoulder. I need help. Last night by the way was the first real date in my life. I'm 20. I need some serious help.