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Nice timing for this thread.. well at least for me anyways. I just so happened to utter those three little words this past weekend. We've been dating for almost two months now, and live apart so we only see each other about once a week/two weeks. But man, for the last month or so I've been wanting to say it to her. I would go to bed just wanting to scream it out. Then this weekend it finally happened. Funny story though, as friday night we were together and very late that night, after some frisky play time we were cuddling in each others arms and very exhausted. We both were feeling great, but I was too tired (5 am) and quickly fell asleep... well I guess she wasnt quite as tired and she softly said that she loved me.... unknown to me. Sounds like something that happens in the movies or something. Well the next night we were laying with each other and talking, and I mean really talking. She kinda made a slip about her feelings toward the future.. (a marriage remark that had slipped) .. so after busting her balls on it for a bit, we got to talking about how we really felt and that she was feeling those three little words, and thats when I grapped her face, looked deep in her eyes and told her sencerily that I loved her, and then she told me the same. It just felt right. I think the previous night we were in a post lust/caught up in the moment time of thing and this just seemed to work out better. I do caution you though, depending on how your relationship is going, not to over use it. It seems in my experience that if you use it too much right out of the gate that it looses its luster. A well timed "I love you" used every now and then goes alot further than saying it after every conversation, moment, ect...
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