Defining an abstract concept almost always requires more thought and energy than is really worth spending. You'll be a lot better off if you just stick to "commonly accepted definition." Abstraction makes for subjectivity, which is why these discussions can go on interminably. Throw in a little anecdotal evidence, and you have the recipe for a long, drawn-out argument that really wasn't worth spending that much time on. There are gray areas, but it's very unlikely that you'll be able to glean insight by defining the borders of an abstraction, which is an inherently impossible task.
You might as well ask, "What is love?" or "What is hate?" You'll get a slightly different response from everyone. But since this is an abstract concept... every respondent is correct, based on how they've experienced life and what kind of person they are.
Of course, don't let this stop you. I'm just saying that you shouldn't be surprised if this thread goes on for pages and pages, with nothing resolved.
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