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It wasn't hiding about the sleeping bit. She knew about the time I hung out with Sarah in November, and knew all the details of that; it was not about hiding anything. Plus, I called her first thing in the morning. She was initially upset I hung out with Sarah at all this time because it seemed sketchy. As I said, things degenerated from there to where the dance-thing became the big issue.
Yes, I think I may not have been sensitive enough -- I knew she was uncomfortable, but we had talked about this so many times before and so far nothing could moderate her worries. I don't know -- I really hoped she knew me better than to think that I would do anything wrong with Sarah. As for consulting her about hanging out, I didn't even really think about that -- I was just trying to prevent her from worrying more overnight.
Perceptions are a bitch sometimes.
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