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You know, I don't want to offend anyone here, but I really have to say that I'm really tired of hearing that old cliche.
My girlfriend says this all the time when I try to bring this problem up too. "Sex isn't everything in a relationship". No shit, but a piston isn't the only component of a car, either, and it sure as hell won't be everything it's supposed to be without it. And besides, AGAIN I have to reiterate that my beef isn't the lack of sex. This is the trouble my girlfriend has a problem seeing too, and I'm at least a little relieved to see that she's the not the only one who doesn't seem to get it. Sex, unfortunately, just happens to be a consequence of what i need... to feel wanted and desired by the woman I love. If there's a way for me to feel that way without sex being a consequence, then by all means tell me so that I can suggest it to my GF... I'm willing to try anything at this point.
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