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Basicaly you will have to change the overt behavior if you want to keep this secret form the kids, but for now you have a good number of years before the kid will have any clue. Once they hit about three the sleeping (true sleeping) together should be out and any overt flirting and touching in their presence should be toned down. Treat them like you would treat any vanilla friends when their child is around.
If you really want to keep it secret, once the child is 7-8 I wouldn't do ANY playtime while they are home, asleep or otherwise. I remember being that age, and when my parents had friends over my sister and I would often hang out at the top of the stairs listening, kids hate going to bed when company is over. I'm sure seeing my mom 69ing 'uncle' Bob or whoever woulda been sort of 'scared for life' material.
The problem with the truth is that kids like to talk, kids like to be important, kids like to show off to their friends, and kids are horrible at keeping secrets. Unless you don't care if others know, I'd never tell a child.
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