ngdawg

Not that I'm in that particular situation, but, just a thought:
May I assume that when the kids are up and around, mom and dad aren't necking and groping in the living room with Auntie and Uncle? I would think that it's not much different than when parents had friends over for drinks and porn tapes-kids are either in bed or not home, no?
As far as sleeping over, etc., kids that grow up within a certain lifestyle take it in stride-it's second nature. I suppose one could explain to them that, like certain other things in life, some people just don't like hearing about this or that, so letting the kids know it's no one's business(plus it's not polite to talk about others anyway) seems a bit more diplomatic than saying to them to 'keep the secret'.
Edit: actually, I just had a thought after hitting 'submit'-my kids know I do 'naked pictures' and have websites, but have never seen them nor do they talk about them-it's just something mommy does and they know when my door is closed, find something to do and don't disturb. Kids are resilient, I wouldn't over-worry a hell of a lot.

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