Well, lurkette, we are in a similiar sitch as well. We DO have a five year old, and when we go out, we have to find a sitter. So far, it's not been an issue. In a few years when she starts understanding a little more about the "facts of life," that may be a bridge we have to cross. Some of our lifestyle friends just tell their kids, and that is the end of that. They obviously tell them to keep it hush-hush, and go from there. I personally wouldn't care if our daughter knew.
As for jobs, they DON'T know, and the won't. They tease me about it some already, even though they don't know.
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