I guess when it is a lie to not say it.
I didn't tell my hub until we were talking marriage. I couldn't stand it when other gals would say it a few days into a dating relationship, to nearly every boy they were involved with. Of course I felt it for him much sooner than that, but I was absolutely determined to not let my heart rule my head. How dedicated I was to being right and safe, for a 19-year old girl...but I knew the consequences back then.
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"Love is a snowmobile racing across the tundra and then suddenly it flips over, pinning you underneath.
At night, the ice weasels come." -
Matt Groening
My goal? To fulfill my potential.
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