motdaksha--I almost agree with your sentiment--up to the point where you start generalizing why asian men are frumpy sexually frustrated complainers. The study linked above shows clearly that there is an actual phenomenon occuring, and that it's not just pessimism and 'sour grapes' discussion. Asian men, of course, are the most concerned about this, but is this a problem? Why are blacks more concerned about black rights than people of other races? Everyone is most concerned about what affects them personally.
But I'm with you about all the generalizations--best you can do is be your own person--fall in love with a person, not a race. And if some people have some racial quirks associated with their sexual preferences, you're not going to be able to change those preferences any more than you can change a person's predilection for handcuffs, leather, hairy chests, etc.
Nevertheless, it's interesting to talk about *why* people have those racial quirks, just as it's interesting to talk about why people like hairy chests! (or....maybe some more flavorful sexual quirk would be more fun to discuss
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