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Originally Posted by indigochild111
He was my reassurance that I wasn't completely hideous or unloveable,
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All you'd have to do is look in a mirror to remind yourself that you aren't hideous-- you are a beautiful young woman... you will have so many more chances at love you just have to (and often times it's easier said than done) BELIEVE YOU ARE WORTHY OF SOMEONE'S LOVE... Not just anyone though... but the right one...
(though at your age.. the 'wrong ones' can be an awful lot of fun.
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Originally Posted by indigochild111
although I do think I'm impossible to really love.
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It's impossible to really love the wrong person... I think it's a lot easier to really love the right person... You are too important a person to settle for less than the right person. I've seen too many women (and guys too) out there of all ages do that... Settle for Mr. Who's Here Right Now, rather than be alone.
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Originally Posted by indigochild111
What does it mean when the only person you ever loved completely doesn't work out? Does it mean there is someone else out there for you...or that you blew your chances of real love?
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It wasn't the right moment for you. It wasn't the right person. He blew his chance... you didn't blow anything.
Over the years I've gotten rather cynical and jaded about love, and honestly doubt it's existance for me... Not for others, really, just me. I'm way too much of a challenge for anyone to really love me... Or as a friend of mine pointed out to me -- I want to be in love in a song..
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When I fall in love,
It will be forever
Or I'll never fall in love.
In a restless world like this is,
Love is ended before it's begun
And too many moonlight kisses
Seem to cool in the warmth of the sun.
When I give my heart,
It will be completely
Or I'll never give my heart.
And the moment I can feel that
You feel that way, too,
Is when I fall in love with you.
And the moment I can feel that
You feel that way, too,
Is when I fall in love with you.
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I don't personally want to die alone, or go intomy 'golden years' alone...but i also don't want to settle for less than i really want. Basically don't be as untrusting and screwed up as I am... and you will not have a problem...