jbleed - Sorry. Life sucks sometimes. At least you had some good times with her and can walk away with no regrets and a minimum of hurt feelings.
So now you're back in the game. Keep looking and don't let this get you down. You'll go through a hundred wrong girls in order to find the right one, maybe more. That's just how these things work.
Try to carry what you learned from her over into your next relationship. You now realize that at these early stages absolutely nothing is set in stone. I know you probably don't want to hear it, but she didn't do anything wrong here. Neither did you. You're both looking for what's best for yourselves and she decided that it was her ex. The next one may decide that it's you. Or the one after that. Or after that. Etc.
You fell, so now you pick yourself up, dust yourself off and move on with your life.
Good luck.
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I wake up in the morning more tired than before I slept
I get through cryin' and I'm sadder than before I wept
I get through thinkin' now, and the thoughts have left my head
I get through speakin' and I can't remember, not a word that I said
- Ben Harper, Show Me A Little Shame
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