I agree with you, but it comes down to this:
I love her more than anything...I love having sex with her.
I just need a way to stop my urges, the urges I have had since I was a teen, that have since escalated.
My wife knows this, and we cannot think of anything. we know it will not magically go away, we just need to come up with something to hinder my thoughts.
First and foremost, can some guys tell me whether its normal to get horny and excited for other women besides their significant others. Im not saying cheating, just getting aroused and fantasizing about others. I feel that is normal, and if people agree with me, how do I lessen these feelings.
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