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I don't think there's any specific 'right one' for a person to orgasm.
Just as the others have said, try and pleasure yourself first, to see what works, without potentially killing your partner's ego. Then at least when you get him in the bedroom, it's easier to direct him. If he's going down on you, I've found that right before cumming, moving his head in a certain manners allows more stimulation on the clitoris. Sometimes, lifting your hips on a pillow helps too. Maybe you're too pressured about cumming that you can't relax.
Don't pressure yourself too much to have some major orgasm ( as Mal said ). Try and try, and hell we gotta commend the guy for continuously going at it. And hell if all that hasn't worked, maybe you just aren't sexually turned on by him...
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