Not much else to add as the other ladies have covered it all well.  I just thought I'd add a few links that relate to your question, particularily that it's perfectly normal and fine to not have mind blowing orgasms every time you have sex!  And also some good informative reasons as to why and what you can do to make things better for both yourself and your partner.
http://www.findarticles.com/p/articl...34/ai_82261855
http://www.enotalone.com/article/2286.html
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