So are you saying you cannot have an orgasm even during masturbation?
If you can, you need to have your boyfriend emulate what you do when you are alone.
If you cannot, you need to learn to experiment to see if you can have an orgasm. Try everything--from sex toys to movies.
Personally, I think learning to give yourself an orgasm is the most important thing. You'll be the most comfortable. You won't have to fake anything. And then you will be able to articulate what you want.
I can imagine how stressful this is for you and your boyfriend. If nothing worked, would you be willing to talk to a doctor about this?
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