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Originally Posted by taboo
i'll try throw in my two cents also..hopefully it hasn;t already been said..
i'm one of those girls who needs her space. when your gf says she needs space, it means let her call you and tell you when she wants to see you. cuz the more you worry and keep calling and asking her to get together, the more irritated she's gonna get. i'm like that a lot. and for me personally, it has nothing to do with cheating or losing interest. sometimes we feel pressured to see the guy too much. are your both your feelings reciprocal? does she feel the same way that you feel about her? is she a little more careless maybe? another thing: has she always sort of been like this, or talked about personal space, or is it really all of a sudden? think positive for the time being. if she doesn;t tell you more about it so you can understand it better, then only maybe start being a little curious about her interest in you..sorry to say that. but, it really might have nothing to do with you!
when i'm in a relationship, i end up spending so much ctime, ALL MY FREE TIME with my bf, that i completely forget and neglect my friends--it's a damn vicious circle. so from my part, i can completely understand her wanting to see her friends too. just talk to her, but dont be over th etop with questions connoting different things. seeing that she needs to do other things, she;s in a period of transition, and the situation needs to be handled gently.
hope that helped.
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I can understand a lot of this taboo. I guess the only thing to look out for is that if she's normally enjoyed spending so much of her time with you and all of a sudden requests some time off, it's at least bound for questions. It's just like functioning within a routine and all of a sudden you do somethng completely out of the norm --there's got to be a reason for it, be it good or bad, right?
I am also that way, when I fall into a relationship, I realize I spend less time iwth my friends--usually due to diffrent interests. My friends, ironically, when I'm involved with someone, they aren't so they're more into going out at night and meeting people. I end up putting off a lot of my friends when I get involved with someone that a lot of times my friends end up resenting me. Oddly though, they are the same as well.
If she hasn't given you a reason to worry before, then maybe it's too soon to get your panties in a bunch..but if you feel the need for answers, you are entitled to them.