i'll try throw in my two cents also..hopefully it hasn;t already been said..
i'm one of those girls who needs her space. when your gf says she needs space, it means let her call you and tell you when she wants to see you. cuz the more you worry and keep calling and asking her to get together, the more irritated she's gonna get. i'm like that a lot. and for me personally, it has nothing to do with cheating or losing interest. sometimes we feel pressured to see the guy too much. are your both your feelings reciprocal? does she feel the same way that you feel about her? is she a little more careless maybe? another thing: has she always sort of been like this, or talked about personal space, or is it really all of a sudden? think positive for the time being. if she doesn;t tell you more about it so you can understand it better, then only maybe start being a little curious about her interest in you..sorry to say that. but, it really might have nothing to do with you!
when i'm in a relationship, i end up spending so much ctime, ALL MY FREE TIME with my bf, that i completely forget and neglect my friends--it's a damn vicious circle. so from my part, i can completely understand her wanting to see her friends too. just talk to her, but dont be over th etop with questions connoting different things. seeing that she needs to do other things, she;s in a period of transition, and the situation needs to be handled gently.
hope that helped.
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