It sounds almost as though you're saying that -- ok make that commitment to someone else - but if you can't be faithful - well that's OK too... Personally, I would have an expectation that a person who is involved with me would be faithful to me-- and if they can't or won't -- then there's a problem that needs addressing.
why not explore the possibility of an open relationship where you aren't morally bound to be faithful (as long as you and your partner's ground rules are set in advance).
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