Funerals are for the living and people need to say goodbye, so the most important thing for me would be the funeral service. Not so they can blow smoke up my ass about what a great guy I was, just so the family can say their farewell.
I don't really care, cremation or burial. I just want to 'return to the earth' if that makes sense. So scatter my ashes somewhere or bury me somewhere. But if I'm to be buried, I want daisies planted on my grave. I wanna be the one pushin 'em up