Originally Posted by taboo

when your SO stresses very easily, and self-destructs, i.e., doesn;t eat anything for maybe 2-3 days, sleeps only 2 hours a night, gets very emotional easily, what is that a sign of? I am so concerned about my SO personal habits, and I keep trying to help, but it doesn;t change much..
How can someone who doesn;t take care of themselves, expect to be able to take care of someone else, and create a healthy relationaship?