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Old 12-10-2005, 08:37 PM   #7 (permalink)
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Originally Posted by simonrex22
I would say watch some porn movies and see where women like to be touched. The best ones would be where the girl is masturbating or a lesbian scene.
I'm sorry, but WOW is that a bad idea. Porn isn't made to be instructional. Looking at any random porn film and then doing most anything you see there to your girlfriend is almost certainly a bad idea. Porn "lesbians" do what they do in a way that's supposed to look to a GUY like it feels good to the GIRL. Which doesn't necessarily have anything to do with what will ACTUALLY feel good to a girl.

Look: human beings had sex long before there was an Internet, before video porn, before books. They had sex before the invention of written language. Our ancient pre-human ancestors did it before there was anything like a sophisticated spoken language. Somehow, they figured it out. I'm betting you're at least that smart.

My one piece of advice: communication is a GOOD thing. Talk to her about what works and what doesn't work.
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