Well practice may be key, but I think it is important to learn something or a few somethings by reading or being taught. Just looking around this forum will be a great investment of your time. For one I don't think any amount of practice is going to teach how to go down on a woman. Now you could say that you should ask the woman what feels good, but you never know if she's had oral sex before or if she even knows supposed she's to be feeling. She may have never have had an orgasm before! You can't count on the other person knowing exactly what they want. How often do we know what's good for us? If we did I think we'd all be a lot happier.
There's a lot you can do by talking to your partner, but somethings you just need to learn from others experience. Anyways sex would be boring if your partner knew every move your were about to do because they have told you what to do. You wanna pleasently surprise them now and again. So just read around these forums. They will most likely ease some of your worries, teach you new things, and possibly help prevent problems before they start.
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Here are some phrases I'd like to be able to say, in all honesty, before I die.
"That's it, send out the ninjas!"
"So then I had to kill my way to the second floor."
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