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hrandani · 12-10-2005, 02:14 PM

When I was growing up I heard quite a few times that "it's not the size of the gun, it's how you use it" whenever somebody would talk about how big they were. Now I'm not too concerned about myself, but I am rather intrigued as to what exactly that means. I'm 19, and currently in my first, long term relationship, but we've only recently begun to have sex, and describing myself as a novice would be more than fair, and I'm afraid I must confess I have little to no idea what I'm doing.

So I guess what I'm asking is as far as general sex advice, what are some pointers, or maybe books (that would be really useful) you would recommend to a neophyte?

I'd share my anecdote about how long it took to figure out how to properly get it in the first time, but it's far too embarassing. So I'm afraid you will all just have to imagine : )

Thanks in advance for any help!

12-10-2005, 02:14 PM	#1 (permalink)
hrandani Insane	New to sex When I was growing up I heard quite a few times that "it's not the size of the gun, it's how you use it" whenever somebody would talk about how big they were. Now I'm not too concerned about myself, but I am rather intrigued as to what exactly that means. I'm 19, and currently in my first, long term relationship, but we've only recently begun to have sex, and describing myself as a novice would be more than fair, and I'm afraid I must confess I have little to no idea what I'm doing. So I guess what I'm asking is as far as general sex advice, what are some pointers, or maybe books (that would be really useful) you would recommend to a neophyte? I'd share my anecdote about how long it took to figure out how to properly get it in the first time, but it's far too embarassing. So I'm afraid you will all just have to imagine : ) Thanks in advance for any help!