Willravel

Hmm...you missed a few things for me, and possibly exaggerate one thing in particular. I like sex as much as the next guy, but no man thinks about sex every 5 seconds, or even 5 minutes. Those old studies were proven wrong ages ago. They are simply trying to reinforce the 'men ar simple minded pigs' attitude. I don't consider myself to be simple minded, even in the sexuality department. I would not put sex a the top of my 'want' or 'need' list. It'd be well into the teens for both, actually. My greatest want and need is the happyness and safety of my immediate family, both daughter and wife (and my beagle puppy, Jack). My secondary needs fall upon my or my wifes ability to bring home the resources necessary to support our family, make sure we have clothes, food, utilities, a roof over our heads, etc. These things are much more important than sexuality, alone time (independance), or 'power'. My attentions are always to my family first, then everything else. This isn't even a maturity thing. I've always felt this way. I wonder if many men are misunderstood because of sexual misconceptions.