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Walk away and never look back.
Love yourself enough to keep looking forward. It is easy to not think about something that has happened that hurt immensely. Heard of 'selective memory'? While you should learn from what you had experienced, you can also wipe out the memory if you are determined to do so. Just like quitting smoking. I quit cold turkey. It wasn't hard. I actually found joy in not having to pop a mint, telling my friends at the bar, 'hold on a sec.. i'm gonna go out for a fag', having my boyfriend take a big sniff in my hair thinking he's gonna get a pleasant sweet shampooey smell but jerk away in disgust at the smell of cigarettes, getting into my car and smelling a faint stale cigaretty odor..
Just don't look back because what's in front of you is fresh candy while what's behind you is chewed up gum. Love yourself. Protect yourself. Find joy in your present and your future. The past is just a memory and a lesson to build your character.
I wish you all the best.
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