As analog said, "2. I have no qualms about lecturing on this subject. Don't ever drive drunk again. Ever. Next time, sleep in your car. "
If you do sleepin your car, do NOT put the keys in the ignition. Don't even start the car, even to keep yourself warm. If a police officer happens upon you, you will be charged for driving drunk (even if the car is in park).
I happened upon this thread and I can understand why everyone is lecturing, but a lecture probably wasn't what he is looking for, so why the threadjacking everyone? He just wants to know how to deal with the aftermath.
At any rate, first encounters happen at every stage of life. She doesn't know you and you don't know her. For her to make a snap decision of your character like after one night - that doesn't show any empathy on anyone's part except her own because of the things that happened in her past.
She sounds to me very selfish and unforgiving. It looks like you could be headed for trouble down the road anyway if you get involved with her. If you're bent on seeing this girl, I suggest calling her instead of throwing an instant message (if you have her phone number that is). At least that shows you're making an effort; instant messaging is so easy anyone can do it these days.
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