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Originally Posted by supersteph2747
I've been dating my current guy for almost 6 months now, and, despite being a law school widow, things have progressed very well for the two of us. We have sex, though not as often as I'd like, but when we do, it's good... for me at least. He always does his duty and gets me off, generally multiple times, but I have yet to make him orgasm through intercourse. Every time ends up with one of the following 1) He just lets it go and doesn't orgasm, 2) He goes to the bathroom and jerks off, or 3) I join him in the bathroom and blow him until he gets off. He claims that he is just conditioned not to orgasm during intercourse, for fear of pregnancy. With our current methods of birth control (note the "s" on the end of that), that is very unlikely.
Sooooo... how can I change this? Are there any good positions that we haven't discovered yet? What can I do on my end to make sure he enjoys this to the fullest? I'd appreciate ANY help on this topic!
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Male orgasm isn't necessarily tied to ejaculation.
Through masturbation we condition ourselves to couple orgasm and ejaculation (to you psych majors, this is called positive reinforcement... I think), but prepubescent boys are known to masturbate themselves to experience orgasm without ejaculating, so don't look at his having stamina as a problem.