If you're looking for a direct answer, and my first thoughts: No. Your relationship cannot survive this. Break up with her and be done with it.
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clearly we’re not talking at the moment. I was betrayed by the girl I loved, and lost my friend in the fall out. Problem is "I believe in a thing called love". It's my only non rational, non atheist belief. It’s the stupid notion that I found the perfect girl out of 3 billion. Well that feeling keeps me going. I can be furious with her, but in no way, have I kicked my belief. I am well aware I can move on to some extent with flings and crushes... But in my 20 year old brain, love is real.
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She's not perfect if she cheats on you. She's not perfect if she makes you feel like shit. She may be a good person, she may be brilliant and lovely and otherwise wonderful. You may be infatuated, hell, even love, but she is not perfect.
We can't tell you what to think or do. If you want to work very very hard on this, there's a chance it could be okay in the end. As long as the both of you establish that you need to build trust again, and that she can't pull any of this again, then maybe, over time, it could happen.
On the other hand, you could give it time and all that, and then things turn to shit and you're worse of than you are now.
*shrugs* Sorry if you were looking for comfort. I don't know what to tell you.