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Holy ghosts of my distant youth....reiii,
On top of the previous posters, I'm going to add that a relationship can survive this, but it won't be the same relationship. As was pointed out above, cheating in relationship is symptomatic of some deeper problem, individually and in the way you relate to one another. If you get back together, as you have already noted, it's almost certain you'll be back in the same place rather shortly. I don't think it means you have to hate her, nor do I think it means that the part of you that feels close to her isn't valid...but it will never be the same. In short, going on what you've posted, it sounds like you may have been her best friend...she wasn't yours.
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