ouch, ouch, ouch.
on behalf of the the national "i didn't deserve <i>that</i>" club, i welcome you as our newest inductee.
my only advice is to take your time. you deserve no less than time to process what happened, and make your choices based on that reflection. she doesn't have a right to pressure that, or try to guilt you in to premature resolution. she got herself into this mess, and her justifications are lame as hell. she cheated on you, no ifs ands or buts.
when i got cheated on, my reaction was to take her back. but i made myself wait, and in the meantime, she got impatient and left me.
and beleive me...that was all for the best with the benifit of hindsight.
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For God so loved creation, that God sent God's only Son that whosoever believed should not perish, but have everlasting life.
-John 3:16
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