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Originally Posted by Ace_O_Spades
I have had this happen to me before... For about a year and a half, during sex I would concentrate on lasting as long as possible. Now, it has made me a great lover, but sometimes I simply cannot achieve orgasm. Not all the time by any means, but it still happens. I still really enjoy sex, and it's great being able to completely satisfy my partner.
Sometimes I'll go until I'm exhausted, sometimes I'll just stop.
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Exactly what I was about to say. Sometimes it's just natural for a guy to take forever. The first time I ever had sex, my girlfriend at the time didn't believe she was my first because I didn't orgasm at the end. It comes with knowing your body, and being able to keep calm under any circumstance. Sometimes we just stay a bit too calm for the situation, but it really is hard to balance. Be glad you're getting endless sex and you're enjoying it. He's probably enjoying it just as much as you.
If anything, try positions that keep 'you' tightly closed, so 'he' doesn't have that much room to move around. My personal favorite is also a very simple position: Female lying down on her side (which side he likes depends on his own preference; I personally like the woman's legs to be pointing towards my right), male going at it like a beast. You'll like it too, but depending on your constitution down there, it might hurt as it puts a lot of strain on you 'down there.' At least it did for my girl at the time.
Everybody's different; try different things.