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Dealbreakers - most of these run together
When we as two well-intentioned people have a misunderstanding it should be "our" problem - But if she can't get over the idea that it's either all mine or all hers that's a bad sign.
Selfishness - should be a given ... but it's painfully common.
Closed-mindedness - not able to discuss things. I don't mind someone who disagrees, but someone who makes up their mind without wanting to hear any other information is a bad sign.
Racism/Social Class Arrogance etc. - I can't live with that
And ultimately ... if we're having big relationship problems but she refuses couple's counseling. Most often, if even one person feels the need for couple's counseling, then both do ...
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