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Originally Posted by yabobo
When you've been in a relationship as long as I have, 23 years.
It is on you if you cheat. You love your partner very much but,........
One of you still wants sex 5 times a day and the other partner wants it once a year.  Got news for you. You won't be happy with the the compromise
after talking to your partner and they promise to love you twice a year.
Sooo you stray then hate yourself but you keep exploring the forbidin.
You clean up nicely and live your double life.
Or, Remember your vows and take them seriously (for better or worse)
And live depressed! 
Love and sex can become separate over time and not be the most important issue.
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yaboho is the only person that touched on this point of being stuck, and having only but 2 alternatives.. What happens when you've tried endless times to find common ground with your wife/husband, and you get nowhere? What happens when the love is really gone, and two people hate eachother, but have been married for 20 years and have a kid of 22? If you separate, you ruin the kid's life, and if you stay, you are eternally depressed. So how do you deal with that? What are you supposed to do?