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There are those that cheat in order to make the other feel terrible.
There are those that do it whom think they won't get caught.
There are those who don't care about either of the previous.
In the end it comes down to one thing; choice. One can be driven to cheat I guess but it is eventually that person's own willpower, or lack there of, which pushes them to cheat or not to cheat. So in answer to your question.. It's a choice.
And key, in answer to your question. If you allow your self-esteem to be so damaged that you can't tell weither or not you're making a choice then you've already made a choice; you let someone else run your life or degrade you into a point in which being around them isn't worth your time. At this point you would end the relationship. It's all about choice life ,is full of choices. Life is choices.
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