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Can I call you Ishmal? Sorry, couldn't resist.
This is really a case by case type of thing. I know that I on occasion post the 'how-to' posts in sexuality, but this would have to be a broad explaination.
1. Determine the sensitivity of the hickey reciever.
-is he/she tickelish? how tickelish?
-how long can he/she go without rugburn durring intercorse?
-is he/she proned to complainiong durring mildly uncomfortable physical situations?
-does he/she bruise easily?
2. Technique.
-make sure that both people (or all people in the case of a three or more situation) are in a position that will be both erotic and comfortable for a long period of time
-make sure that you have access to at least one target zone (usually neck, inside of elbow, upper back, back of knee, inner thigh, etc.), but preferablly two or more.
-as you address the target zone, look for softer skin, peach fuzz, and reder areas that a lot of people have, as these areas are likely to have more nerve endings and will provide more intense stimulation.
-make contact very sofly for the first 1-4 minutes, only lightly kissing and sucking. The area will only come partially sensitive before your touch and you need to warm the person up
-listen to the sounds and/or words that come from the reciever. Sounds of enjoyment mean "continue what you're doing", sounds of enjoyment with increasing volume usually mean"harder", for example.
-continue for at least 5 minutes or until the other person begins to squirm a bit, then stop for a moment to check redness or to address a different area.
-rinse and repeat
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