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Ok, I'm ultra busy with other stuff (aka school and grad school applications) but I just have to rant this out.

So this girl who we've been talking about, lets call Amy, came to my university from around the area. She came in with 2 of her good highschool friends, a girl and a guy. The girl is her very close friend who is her roommate. The guy is her very close friend too. Basically, all they did their first semester (this semester) was hang out alot together, go home on the weekends, and generally didn't meet anyone else (Amy didn't even go to one party!! And neither has she tried ANY of the close campus restaurants at all. Even ME, who was nerdy, had at least gone to a few parties, and tried all the restaurants, and met some new friends, by the end of first semester freshman year)

Anyways, the guy is a very close friend, who I am starting to get the feeling she likes and has more than just a friend interest in. Amy laughs with her friend at every little weird, quirky thing the guy does (quite immature both for the guy to do and the girls to laugh at). The guy does weird stuff like eat 5 sandwiches while waiting in the line for more food, or like drink milk or take his food around and eat it while walking. I mean, I think he's doing it for attention; if he were mature, he would just sit his ass down and eat his food without walking around all the time eating, or "forgetting" his plates around the school cafetaria, which the girls also seem to find very cute.

or Amy will be like, "hey guy, can u untie this balloon for me? (points at balloon which is *right* in front of her, but halfway across table from guy).

apparently the guy has slept over in their dorm room too. (none of my business, really). But, its weird for platonic friends to sleep over i think... And when the guy told her today that his dorm ceiling was 'leaking', she immediately said "hey! u can sleep in our room".

Apparently the guy is going after some other freshman girl who they didn't know from before (but of course they do know now). And when Amy was eating today it looked like she and this other girl were in competition, or they weren't talking as friends would talk (not even casual friends haha).

So basically, I have a hunch that Amy AND the guy friend secretly like each other. But being inexperienced freshmen, and not willing to risk their friendship, they are going after other people (such as myself I think).

I really don't want to be the *DECOY* in this sort of deal. I'll be honest. I feel jealousy when she shows flirtatious interest in her close guy friend, because I like her. BUT, its the sort of laughing and flirting that is REALLY immature. I don't think I can stand much more of this immature freshman bullcrap.

If she likes the guy, or he likes her, or both, they should just get together, and stop wasting my time. Her confusion might stem from her interest in the guy as well.

Well, I'm just ranting, cuz well, I'm tired of this immaturity. If I were dating her, or her BF even, and had to sit through a semester's worth of this immature crap (haha look at Guy friend, he's eating 5 sandwiches while he's waiting in the salad line), I think I'll shooot myself.


Now I know why ppl don't go after freshmen, unless they're in it for the fling. ARGH

EDIT: hmm I sound jealous. I AM jealous. I should respect their good friendship, which I do. But really, if deep down they like each other I don't want to waste my last semester chasing after a frigid confused girl.