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I think that marriage and kids and all that "life" stuff is dependent on the people involved. Some people are fine with not getting married, other people need that commitment. I was engaged at 18 and broke off the engagement at 21. We changed too much and grew apart. I was married at 23...was I too young, I don't think so. I was finished with college, had a steady job, and knew that JJ was the one I wanted to marry. It made sense to us and was a the next logical step. We never did the engagement thing, we just decided to get married in June and that was that.
It all comes back to the magic term...communication. If you are opened and honest about your expectations and ideals, there shouldn't be any problems. The problems will occur when communication has broken down and each person has different wants and expectations in the relationship.
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