"Death ends a life, but it does not end a relationship, which struggles on in the survivor's mind toward some final resolution."
If you've already resolved the problems you had with her, don't go. If you feel you need some closure with her or any of the rest of the family, go. A funeral is for the living, the survivors. Do what's going to be best for you in the long run.
Gilda
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I'm against ending blackness. I believe that everyone has a right to be black, it's a choice, and I support that.
~Steven Colbert
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