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Been a latinamerican myself, i understand the value of a family and the pressure family can generate on oneself, but i've always thought that family is not about blood links but about love links, it is my case that i have over 20 cousins, and i don't recognize but 3 of them as so, but there is this other family that are best friends with my parents that i recognize as my uncles and cousins, why? because they saw me grow up, they were there for me in the good and in the bad and most important of all, i care about them and they care about me. Should you go or not, that's your decision, if i was you and if it was just about grandma i wouldn't go, but if someone that i love cares about her and wants me there by his/her side, i'd go to comfort them.
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