It's time for Mantus' patented - I know nothing about the people or situation but I'll throw in my two cents anyways - advice column!
Try to avoid the guilt trap, it makes for a weak relationship. Goes something like this:
You beg and plead for her to take you back. Buy her all sorts of jazz. She takes you back puts you in a guilt trap. You buys and plead some more, and more, and more, and you are her bitch and then she is like, oooooh another cock, shiny! And leaves you.
If you still wan't to persist, give her some space, like a week or two. When you talk to her again, try to keep mentions of the incident to a minimum. Tell her how much fun you've had with her and how much more fun you wana have. Tell her you are an inteligent guy that learns from his mistakes and that perhaps you need some one to keep you reigned in, if she is strong enough. Well you get the idea, no begging, keep your dignity, tell it how it is, focus on the good stuff.
Cheers. Good luck to ya.
(PS. Drunk driving jokes are worse then dead baby jokes so I've been a good boy and kept my mouth shut, but I was thinking about them and boy howdy was I tempted)
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