cyrnel

Go. For respect to her and to family, and yourself.

She's human. Consider her generation, how people keep things to themselves. Assume she has regrets of her own. Doing what you can for her and family speaks well of you. Letting old resentment shackle you only deepens the wounds.

If she's coherent and you make contact, wonderful. If not you made an effort and were there for family.

*disclaimer: I'm white so probably don't know what family connections mean.

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There are a vast number of people who are uninformed and heavily propagandized, but fundamentally decent. The propaganda that inundates them is effective when unchallenged, but much of it goes only skin deep. If they can be brought to raise questions and apply their decent instincts and basic intelligence, many people quickly escape the confines of the doctrinal system and are willing to do something to help others who are really suffering and oppressed." -Manufacturing Consent: Noam Chomsky and the Media, p. 195