Go.
Not for her, not even for your family but for you.
We have the same thing in my family. A grandmother who didn't like my mother and was basicly a bitch all of her life. The problem is she liked me and I never saw any of this. It was only much later that I learned of how she treated some people (including her own sister).
Its quite possible that you have family that doesn't understand the situation, she liked them and was nice to them, if you don't show up they will think it was very disrespectful and will not understand your reasons. Since I rather doubt you are the kind to go around telling them about it, odds are they won't ever know anything other than you were to 'lazy' to go to your own grandmothers funeral.
You owe her nothing, but don't let your feeling towards her hurt your relationship with the rest of your family.
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