First off, I hate making the people who frequent Tilted Sexuality strictly for sexual stuff fish through this crap... and I apologize. I feel a bit high-schoolish talking to you all about this, but it's an interesting set of circumstances here. So, without further ado, let's get the boring part over with (I'll make it short):
I'm a guy. Met her at party about a month ago. We got drunk and she took me to her place:
full story. In short, as StrongBad would say, we got makey-outey. We went on a date (I paid, dinner and movie). We keep talking, she's busy, I'm busy, I lived 45 minutes away from campus at the time, so we can't go out for a while.
A week after our date, I go to a party. I get drunk, drive home (first time I've ever even thought about doing that). Prolly would have blown maybe a .04, but scared the piss out of myself. I tell her about it about 3 days later, jokingly. She says never talk to me again. I write her a letter (since she wouldn't answer her phone) telling her how horrible I felt and how that isn't really how I am (and honestly I'm not). She sends back a text message saying that she doesn't hate me or think I did it intentionally, but she doesn't tolerate that because her uncle was hit by a drunk driver. This was a week ago.
I don't want things to end between us like this. It's already obvious to me that I shouldn't have done it in the first place, and I really do feel horrible for it. I don't even want advice really, even though it's appreciated, I really want to know from a different perspective whether or not I still have a chance to just carry on a conversation with her.